i would suggest going to a research library and look through the biology journals. you will find hundreds of examples. the same with many of the questions you pose here. the answers and explanations can be found with a cursory search.when was the last time anybody researching evolution attempted to "falsify" the theory? it has reached the point that it is unquestioned. ID is an attempt to "falsify" the data. it is relatively new and has been met with extreme prejudice. you, yourself, will not even consider it, because you do not want to reach the conclusion that there could be a "designer". I understand where you're coming from, but just because your worldview does not allow you to consider something greater than yourself does not mean it does not exist.
you are trying to cast ID and its proponents as some kind of victim. they are not. i do not "consider" it, because it is not science. it is a cloak for creationism that is being put forward to push a certain religious worldview, in many case through the use of our government. it has absolutely nothing to do with me wanting or not wanting to reach a conclusion about some "designer".