So I sent an email and said i am pre approved, ready to buy immediately. I wanted the price to be $22k (this was after an internet offer of $23,800 from them). I mentioned to one that I had a trade in. He replied that they could work with me on the trade in to get it down to 22k. lol my trade in is worth 6500 at a minimum so it is obvious they are still trying to sucker me. I clarified the 22k would be the price and then we could talk about the trade in value.
I just cant believe he tried to make it out like a 27k msrp, with him offering me 23,800, and then trying to insinuate he would give me 1800 for my 6500 trade in would be a deal he could possibly swing. that is a thief in my opinion.
All that being said, I still wonder what is truly fair for all involved with a "1 yr old" vehicle that he only has one more week to get rid of before the new model comes in.
Having a trade-in adds another factor to the negotiation. Still you should educate yourself as much as possible relative to the value of the trade in using sites such as kbb.com. Use "trade-in value" and be realistic on the self evaluation. If the vehicle has had paint work then you are not going to get top value for it. If it needs tires, has a crack in windshield, obvious fluid leaks on motor then value accordingly. Likewise if you have all service records, any maintenance records, etc then provide when the dealer does the appraisal. Remember you are trying to sell them on your trade.
Once you have a number for trade, then focus/negotiate on the trade difference or the money you put with your car to get their car. In other words, invoice price (minus any rebates, refer to my earlier post) - trade in value = trade difference. Again focus on the trade difference which is "real money" instead of the price of the CR-V or what they give you for trade.
Just from your posts it seems to me that you are getting frustrated with the process and won't end up buying a CR-V especially if you are doing the deal totally over the phone/email. Normally what happens in that situation is the customer just gives up, goes to another dealer and buys a different type vehicle while reassuring themselves they got a better deal since they couldn't deal with the Honda dealers.
Let's try this if you are comfortable doing so... post invoice price of the CRV you want to buy(that is actually on the dealer's lot) along with a link to the MSRP sticker. Then post the trade in value of your vehicle with options/mileage from kbb.com. These 2 values will then give you the trade difference I mentioned above.
We can then compare that number to your figure of $17300 diff and his figure of $22000 diff.