I was 18, she was 15...nothing else to say, 3 years is not that big of a difference, and certainly not one for which anyone should be labeled a "child molester". 16 and 13? Maybe, that's a different area because one is barely a teen. Even 17 and 14 is a gray area IMO.IDK. I'd feel differently about the guy if he'd done a search for, for example, 10 year old girls. 16 is a very recent and artificial age of consent (and adulthood). There are guys under a life sentence for "abuse" of a girl when the girl was 16 and the guy was 17. That's stupid. 16 used to be an "old lady," because people rarely lived far into their 30s. His search wasn't wise and it probably was inspired by alcohol, but a life sentence for it is totally absurd...
Teens are going to have sex, they always have and they always will. Does it make it "right"? I think each case should be decided on its own, not a blanket condemnation or approval. I do not think it falls in the same category as a 50 year old having sex/molesting a 10 year old. I don't care what the laws say.