The thing about this, IMHO, that keeps getting left out is that no one disputes the call. Only the implementation of the penalty. And in the moment, during the game, no one--not the refs, not the coaches--no one knew how to correctly implement the penalty. The ref in question has been refereeing locally for 16 years for no reason other than he enjoys doing it and, so far as I have read here in OKC, does not have any history of note with previous controversial calls. The referee feels terrible and has said he'll likely give up refereeing games over this.
What also gets left out is that after the game the losing teams (Douglas HS) coach was shouting obscenities, fans started a small brawl, and the scene turned into general mayhem. I don't have a dog in this fight but it seemed to me like Douglas did little to help their own cause with their actions.
As I told my wife, Once upon a time a coach would have used this unfortunate error to illustrate that difficult, unfair things happen to us all in life and how you handle yourself and the situation is a building block of character. Opportunity missed, IMHO.