IMO, they both should have been charged. She was the aggressor and landed the first blow, puny as it might have been. However, as I've said in the other thread, that kind of retaliation will always get you charged, usually a more serious charge even than the instigator. That said, this thread really belongs in NS, along with his sister thread about Johnson. Nothing tying it to football except one of the participants happened to play football. It was of some interest here because of Stoops action. Now that that's burned out and it's down to the law of self defense, it's not really football-centric any more...