Here is where you and I have a disconnect. There is no implicit belief in my disagreement with you that makes you believe I think you are living in 'sin'.And I don't think you're a bigot for that. Basically we're allowed to disagree. It bothers me that we're getting to a point where we're not.
This isn't about rights or marriage, etc. The original Deadspin article wasn't about that at all. The original quote from Murphy wasn't about that at all. But simply disagreeing with someone's beliefs or choices got him labeled a bigot. That bothers me.
I am not sure how else to explain this any better. Just because I disagree with you, there is no implied 'judgement' of that lifestyle based upon my disagreement. When I say 'I disagree with you because the magic toaster in my attic says people who are married to Auburn fans are all dirty, living in sin, and when I ascend to the great breadbox in the sky, even though I love you, and wish you could join me, my magic toaster says you are not allowed, all because you married an Auburn fan.' then that implies judgement. I am using my belief to make quantifications on your lifestyle. Personally, I still don't think thats bigoted, but it was your question not mine.