I have a friend that when I met her was a housewife/mom friend of my wife, her husband was a great dude I got along with well. A few years later she is a lesbian living with another one of the Mom's who also left her husband. Now they are getting married and she is transitioning to a he and I have no freeking clue what is going on. They went from hetero housewifes to lesbain couple to trans man (I think) and wife. Does this mean no one here is gay? I am lost
LOL,
I actually had a discussion with a local university professor. He had tried to talk my daughter into experimenting, and to have some fun she got him to talk to me. Not sure if the fun for her was watching him or me. He actually used the term natural to describe what he thought should be the correct terminology. He says he likes to offend to get people to think, when I asked if he saw that irony in using the term natural he didn't right away. When I pointed it out to him he got angry.
He considered the organs one was born with as irrelevant for anything but a categorization. So if you trans to a male's organs from a female and still attracted to men you are still gay. Ill use AUdub's system:
original organs, straight = natural straight
original organs, gay = natural gay
original organs, bi = natural bi
trans organs, straight (attracted to original organ opposite) = trans straight
trans organs, gay (attracted to those with same original organs) = trans gay
trans organs, bi = trans bi
I guess that works as well as anything.
Seriously,
I don't understand the reason people see this as anything other than self mutilation, and a psychological identity crisis. In this case if the boy (I guess he is still considered a boy by most people) is attracted to masculinity, find himself a relatively masculine girl. There are plenty around looking for love.