Situations like this remind me of the episode of “The Andy Griffith Show” where Opie befriends a hobo (played by Buddy Ebson) who leads Opie down a primrose path.
Andy states that with children, a parent can't simply let them choose, as they would pick the first thing that comes along wrapped in shiny ribbons. He continues in saying that the hobo life seems to be all fun and games to a child even though they know it's isn’t. Andy tells the Buddy Ebson character he's no longer good company for Opie. Opie thinks just about everything you do is “the best way”, so Andy’s problems have just started.
Coaches in situations like this assume the parental role for these kids. And like Opie they are all kinds of people that “have their ear” and social media only makes it worse. Hard for kids to listen to “Trust me. There are no short cuts”.
Best to young Mr. Hall, whatever he may decide.