Legitimate question. Did the family try to get him help? It's very difficult to have someone admitted now for an acute emergent mental health problem and next to impossible for a longer stay. It is equally possible the house he grew up in normalized these things or that they were completely appalled by his behaviors even before this happened.I was thinking. The driver (I won't name him) had a history of mental illness, was hospitalized several times in his youth. Went to bed with a picture of Adolf Hitler on his nightstand. What should the family have done to get this guy help/prevent him from going to Cville? I've read he had a contentious relationship with his mother, but I would be crushed if one of my children did something like this.