This is how a conversation I once heard went when referring to Spurrier as a family man and a jerk:Certainly never met Spurrier personally, but to me he projected an image of being a totally egotistical jerk. Don`t know if that`s how he truly is or not.
Person 1: "Coach Spurrier is not the jerk that everyone makes him out to be. Just look at all the time we makes for his family and how much time he spends with them."
Person 2: "That is because no one wants to hang out with the jerk. His family is forced to."