I think you are really stretching to try to make your point.My point is a simple one. If you are focused on your kids, you leave the weed and illegal gun at home. His focus is on himself. What if he had his kids with him when he was pulled over? How great would that experience be for them? Getting to watch daddy get arrested.
In his multiple arrests, his kids have not been around. I don't like driving around armed and smoking weed but plenty of people do that and still try to be good parents. Hopefully, when he does leave his gun at home he doesn't leave it where his kids can play with it. Or the pot either, for that matter.
My point is simple too...people react when he gets arrested back home...if only he would stay away...while I'm suggesting his kids and his feelings for them are likely the most stabilizing thing in his life, and seeing them involves going back home.