I get all of that, but let's be honest with ourselves. I have 2 boys. I know that they hear what they want to hear. I have learned over the years how to very clearly communicate with them. I have learned how to make sure that they are hearing what I mean, not what they want to hear. And sometimes I just let them hear what they want to hear because it is just easier. Well, that is what happened here.
Saban has dealt with a lot more young people than I have. He knows how to clearly communicate with each and every one of them. Sometimes it is easier, or just serves his purpose, to let them hear what they want to hear. It doesn't mean that Saban did anything wrong, but it does leave room for these kind of hard feelings.
Saban is the best in the business, but let's not fool ourselves. Just like everyone else in a position like his - he uses people to achieve larger goals. Not everyone is going to get to play, but he needs everyone to believe - to buy in. So he has to let these kids hear what they want to hear, or what they need to hear, from time to time. That's just the way it works.