I got a call last night from a good friend of mine who I met when I moved to Louisiana back in '96. We've kept in touch over the years, still talk, and our families hangout from time to time. He called me last night and said he was about to text me a screen shot of something and wanted me to look at it and call him back and give him my opinion. We hung up, the text came through and it's screen shots of a series of private messages his wife had gotten from another friend of ours who ran with us in college. It was three of us. We were all close knit, good friends, had some good times in college together. We all three still live in the area, all three are married with kids. The guy who initially called me, we keep in touch more than the third friend. But I still talk with the third guy two to three times a year on the phone. But that's about it.
The friend who called me last night and his wife ran into friend number three and his wife over the weekend at a restaurant. He keeps in touch even less with friend number three than I do. Apparently friend number three "took a liking" to the wife of the friend who called me last night and began private messaging her on FB with some very flirtatious messages. IMO, the messages were out of bounds. They weren't vulgar by any means but you could tell he was "fishing". I couldn't believe what I was seeing. I would have NEVER thought this guy would do something like that. I called my friend back and told him that IMO it was out bounds and the guy was basically hitting on his wife. I wished I could have given the guy an out and said his account may have been hacked. But that wasn't the case. Because in the PM he mentioned seeing and talking to them at the restaurant the night before. I'm not sure what the friend who sent me the screen shots is going to do. He asked me what I would do and I told him I'm probably not the best person to ask that question to. He said he's going to think about it a little more before deciding what to do. I'm still stunned to say the least. Who needs enemies when you have friends? :rolleye2:
The friend who called me last night and his wife ran into friend number three and his wife over the weekend at a restaurant. He keeps in touch even less with friend number three than I do. Apparently friend number three "took a liking" to the wife of the friend who called me last night and began private messaging her on FB with some very flirtatious messages. IMO, the messages were out of bounds. They weren't vulgar by any means but you could tell he was "fishing". I couldn't believe what I was seeing. I would have NEVER thought this guy would do something like that. I called my friend back and told him that IMO it was out bounds and the guy was basically hitting on his wife. I wished I could have given the guy an out and said his account may have been hacked. But that wasn't the case. Because in the PM he mentioned seeing and talking to them at the restaurant the night before. I'm not sure what the friend who sent me the screen shots is going to do. He asked me what I would do and I told him I'm probably not the best person to ask that question to. He said he's going to think about it a little more before deciding what to do. I'm still stunned to say the least. Who needs enemies when you have friends? :rolleye2:
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