The vibe I am getting on here so far from posters that I respect seems to be, as long as we win 2 out of every 3 games with the barn, then we need to be satisfied with that result.
The vibe I'm getting from you - whom I totally respect - is that our conversation is functioning asymmetrically though not obtusely.
Some of us are really caught. It's not that we're "satisfied" with winning 2 of 3 - it's kind of the not wanting to be seen as a "sore loser" or the worst part of some of the most vocal (and clueless) section of our fan base's main problem.
I know that no Tide fan here starts with the, "Well, the rip on Saban is he can't beat a good Auburn team." Or its gets phrased another way like "we always have trouble with Auburn when it's a winner take all game." But I think any of us who are really fans of the GAME (and not just Alabama) realize that emotion plays a big role in firing that adrenaline and doing stuff to help your team win. And that gets right back to the basic difference between the expectations of fans at Alabama and at Auburn. I mean NOTHING disrespectful to anyone, including our Auburn dub AUDub here, who is a classy poster, but it's an accurate generalization. I'm going to paraphrase two Alabama fans (at least one is a grad), Rodney Orr and Scott Brown.
Auburn will NEVER be Alabama. No matter how many SEC titles they win, how many Heismans, moving the game to JHS, beating Alabama, or winning multiple national championships - they will NEVER be Alabama. The problem is that too many Auburn fans refuse to accept this reality. The bias of the state will ALWAYS point towards Tuscaloosa and NEVER towards Opelika. That's just the truth. This is not because there's anything inherently wrong with Auburn (despite some elements of our fanbase wanting to pretend such). It's simply that because of differences and timing, Auburn could have 50 years like our last 50 years, and they will still never be Alabama - just like Pat Dye, who no doubt gave it all he had - never became the second coming of Coach Bryant. This creates in inherent inferiority complex in the Auburn fan. No matter what he does, his school will always be compared to Alabama, and it will ALWAYS come up short. Auburn is the blue collar guy who busted his tail and did the best he could, working during the day and going to school at night, married the homecoming queen and after thirty plus years got to try his hand at running things. Alabama is Tom Brady, born with a certain level of advantage that they've parlayed into greater winnings than anyone else - oh, and married the hot super model to boot.
Auburn's history on the field is NOT bad at all - unless you compare it to Alabama. They've won eight SEC titles (as many as Florida), two national titles (more than UGA if you want to get technical), had three Heisman winners, trail only Alabama in Western Division titles (Auburn has won the West NINE times. They rank 16th by winning percentage, and I'd raise that to 15 since Boise State's program ranks ahead of Alabama, which is a total sham. Auburn has won 23 bowl games as well, only one fewer than Nebraska. Granted, those stats have gotten inflated in the last 20 years - but only one of those bowl wins (2015) came from a six-win team. They're not a bad program historically, especially when you remember they've done those things in the shadow of the big crimson elephant that casts a shadow over the state.
But as the old saying goes, every time a foot compares itself to a yard, it comes up short.
That gets to the point I've talked around - emotion. BECAUSE of that "second class citizen" status, Auburn will pretty much ALWAYS bring more emotion into the Iron Bowl than Alabama. At Alabama, you beat Auburn because you "have" to in order to do BIGGER things like win the SEC title or national title or at least get a better bowl game. At Auburn, you beat Alabama to get respect - Alabama beating Auburn does NOT give us respect. And THAT difference is why you have the fervor at JHS especially. Auburn takes the field with nothing to lose hoping to beat Alabama. Alabama takes the field with EVERYTHING to lose, hoping to NOT LOSE to Auburn.
And that difference cannot be made up by Coach Saban, either. He can do nothing that is going to give our guys an inferiority complex enough to harness the emotion. The closest I ever saw this was the first half of the 2010 Iron Bowl, where you could just feel the crowd coming through the TV screen. And you could feel it dissipate at halftime. Auburn brings emotion to the game that we can NEVER bring to the game. I'm not trying to be a (Little) Debbie Downer here, I'm just telling ya like it is.
So it's not that we think it's "okay," it's just more of trying to not sound like the Finebaum callers, the ones who used to want to jump into the wrestling ring and attack the heel on "Georgia Championship Wrestling" back in the day. And as I've said one hundred times - Auburn's fan base woke up the morning after beating Oregon and realized that even though they were #1 in the nation they were still #2 in the state. Basically, we had rushed down and stolen their presents when they woke up on Christmas morning.