After my ex signed the papers, she started haggling over X, Y, and Z piddly crap. Then threatened to challenge the divorce if I didn't relent.
My attorney told her, "What are you going to contest? You already signed the agreement."
I had a good laugh.
Oh, and the 750 lb Broyhill entertainment center that she left behind. She pulled up 5 minutes after the junk man had left with the destroyed remnants lying in my driveway(I had a good time sawing and tearing that thing apart). Came in the house, "Where's my entertainment center!!!" I told her I sold it, barely concealing a well-suppressed guffaw.
Sum total: You're better off without her, bud.
The only post-divorce story I had that was funny happened right about a year ago (August 11 to be precise).
In Texas, child support has to be discontinued via the person getting it signing off that all has been paid. Well, I think you can see where I'm going with this one. She first refused to pay sign and then wrote a 61-page appeal (I'm NOT kidding folks) to the judge, asking that I be forced to pay 1/2 of his tuition at a $52,000 per year acting conservatory he got a pittance of money from the school to attend. It made up a bunch of stuff about me, I mean, she made me sound like OJ Simpson. So I had to go back to my lawyer and spend another $4,000 for him to write up stuff and do his job and go to court etc.
So she delayed it and drew an extra 3 months. Then she shows up with a recent diagnosis of him as "disabled." Now keep this in mind - we had done mediation 18 months earlier, supposedly ending this. But what made it worth my money was that when we went before the judge (oh - on top of this, she ticked off my attorney by having the gall to bring my 18-year old son to the hearing with her so he could see daddy being the jerk).....the judge was just going down the list of "is this criteria met." Rather than answer, the ex decided to give an exposition, the judge shut her down. But then she INTERRUPTED the judge, who proceeded to point her finger down in my ex's face and say, "STOP IT! Stop it RIGHT NOW!" (This is the same ex who got up during our last counseling session and blasted me and the counselor and thought she was a bad ash, slamming the door walking out the room). Nobody - not her momma, nobody - had ever been in position to basically say "shut your hole," and it was worth the money it cost me to see it, quite frankly.
The only sleep I've lost over it that is rough is that you can go make more money that you lose, and you can find a new person - but the time you wasted trying to invest it in someone is gone forever, and when you're 48 it's a whole lot different than 28. If you get married at 21 (as I did) and divorced at 27, everyone kind of hugs you and says, "Oh, you were just too young, you didn't know what you were doing."
If you get divorced after 25 years of marriage, however, and your youth is mostly if not totally gone....you not only wind up divorced and have minimal time to regain the money you lost (which was more to the attorney than to her in my case), you also get the condescending "advice" of people who want to tell you "well, you had a lot of time and years invested, and y'all SHOULD have been able to work it out." So not only are you judged for being divorced, you're judged a second time for something you really didn't want to unfold the way it did - and had no control over. (I've said it would be easier if I knew "why" - I mean, if I'd run around or hit her or had a gambling problem or something, I could at least see my own role in it, but when your own ex admits to the marriage counselor that unlike 99% of husbands, he "does do this" or 'does do that' - you're more confused than anything else).
And let's not even get into my memory and every single, solitary day something from long ago triggers. Indeed, the only thing that has kept me from going completely nuts NOW - unlike years ago - is I now KNOW I have this "thing" and so I can try to compensate for the issues it causes. If not for "60 Minutes" and Dr McGaugh, I'm not sure I'd have been able to cope with the fallout.
Anyway - I'm fine, but I haven't looked back; back just overtakes me on a minute by minute basis.