Some sad news: my wife and I lost a family friend. Hai was the older brother of one of my wife's best friends. He played guitar at our our wedding. Incredibly talented and a great friend. He traveled the world either as a cyclist or a musician and always had stories to tell. He was out walking his dog earlier this week when he had a massive stroke. He never recovered. We are back in Virginia to be with his family to offer what help we can. Trying to make the upcoming memorial a celebration of his life is tough since this was so sudden and unexpected. Hai was very fit and barely 50. Sigh. This is so unfair. RIP, my friend.