You serious Clark? 'cause I'm pretty sure I can scare up some folks that would have taken an education, chef, masseuse, tutors, nice place to live.etc...over Nam. I cannot nor am I intending to speak for anyone that serves/served, but I think that this was waaaayyyy off base. (see what I did there?)
No different than a kid coming out of high school, then running smack dab into Vietnam.
Some adjust easily. Circumstances force them to grow up.
Others don't. Carter still has a lot of growing up to do.
He can now do it on someone else's Dime.