Funny story.
My wife and I had been dating for several months when I came to the decision that I wanted her to be my wife, so I proposed and she accepted. We were doing the long distance relationship. I would leave work on Friday and drive to spend the weekend with her, get up early Monday and head to work or vice versa. Over the course of the next couple of weeks we discussed plans for saving our money and plans about our career paths. We decided we would begin to cook at home and not eat out as much as we had during the dating stage. She is a southern girl but not a SOUTHERN girl. Her being in the kitchen is like a fish out of water. Anyway on the way to meet the love of my life one weekend, late on Friday afternoon she informs me she has Pintos (out of the can), sour kruat and sausage, mashed poptatoes(from a box), and cornbread for me when I get there. I couldn't wait, my tastebuds were on the edge of my tounge. An hour or so later after thinking about my cornbread topped with pintos, I bit into my first fork full. To my suprise it wasn't like mommas, or grandmommas, or great-grandmommas. It was really really sweet. I made a comment or two adn asked her to explain how she made it. She got the Jiffy Sweet Cornbread Mix box out of the garbage can and told me she thought her mom always added sugar to it, but she couldn't get in touch with her mom so she guessed and added another cup of sugar. I expressed my displeasure for the stuff and told her that wasn't cornbread, what she had made was a terrible cake. She cried a lot. She quit cooking. She still married me. I do all the cooking in our house, that was 12 years ago. I still love my city-girl. She still doesn't cook.
Here is my version
1 1/2 Cups of Self Rising Cornmeal (White Lily)
1/4 AP Flour
1 Large Egg
1 1/4 cups of Buttermilk
1/4 cup of Vegetable or Canola Oil
Dash of Salt
Dash of Fresh Ground Pepper
Mix together pour into hot skilled greased with 2 tablespoons of unsalted butter and 2 tablespoons of bacon drippings. Bake 400 degrees until brown. (20-25 minutes)