May 8, 1995
Philadelphia Phillies 3 (W: Abbott, 1-0; SV - Slocumb, 5)
Atlanta Braves 2 (L: Glavine, 1-1)
6-5
2nd place
2 games behind
PHILS SWEEP BRAVES IN ATLANTA;
BRAVES MANAGER BOBBY COX ARRESTED FOR DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
The Philadelphia Phillies sent notice to the Atlanta Braves that they will not be pushovers in 1995, completing a four-game sweep in Atlanta thanks to a quick start that gave them a three-run lead off Atlanta starter and losing pitcher Tom Glavine. A leadoff walk to Len Dykstra and a Gregg Jefferies two-run home run gave Philly starter David West a 2-0 lead before the took the mound, and the Phils manufactured a third run with a Mickey Morandini single, a sacrifice bunt from West, and a single from Dykstra that scored Morandini. Atlanta manufactured runs in the third and sixth with small ball that included a Chipper Jones baserunning blunder (in the third), and the anemic Atlanta attack continues to have problem scoring runs. The Atlanta defense also made three errors. Heathcliff Slocumb got his fifth save of the year, and the Phillies leave town in first place on a high. And with apologies to Forrest Gump (just released two weeks ago on VHS after a successful run in theatres in the summer of 1994), "That's all we have to say about that." The major news concerned what happened before today's game (and after last night's game) that intersects with the justice system, the social problem of domestic violence, public relations, and the woes of the Braves thus far in 1995.
According to Cobb County police, Atlanta Braves Manager Bobby Cox was arrested last night around 10:15 pm at his home in Marietta and subsequently charged with simple battery for punching his wife and pulling her hair in a domestic dispute. The police report states that Cox's wife, Pamela, called the police and met them at the door with visible swelling and redness on the side of her face. Cox was also clearly intoxicated according to the report. Cox was released on $1,000 bond and faces a court hearing on May 26. Mrs. Cox said her husbandd and some guests were drinking at their home when he spilled a drink on the carpet, and she made a comment about it. Then, after the guests left, she alleges, he hit her in the face with his fist and pulled her hair. Pamela Cox further stated that "this has occurred many times before, but (she) never called the police because of possible media attention" as well as "the effect on their children." The police report said their youngest daughter, Skyla, 13, was home and witnessed the attack. Cox admitted that he pulled his wife's hair and called her a name (said to be one that rhymes with "rich" as Barbara Bush put it), but he denied hitting her. He further stated that she has also been violent in the past, and that he "hit her in reflex to her assault on him." Cox declined comment. Cox did, however, say that her flush face was not from him hitting her but from her vomiting as she was intoxicated as well.
Pamela Cox further added to the confusion today when she stated he had NOT, in fact, struck her, and that she had used a poor choice of words. She conceded they were arguing and that she had called 911 at the height of their dispute, but she revised her story to say he had, in fact, pulled her hair, but he had not struck her. She also said that she "looks a mess when I've been crying" and that while Bobby was, in fact, intoxicated, that had nothing to do with their dispute at all.
“Since spring training we’ve been under a lot of pressure because of family problems,” she told the newspaper. “This has been steaming for months. It has nothing to do with alcohol.I am as guilty as he is. I put my daughter’s pregnancy before spring training. I should have been there at spring training." There are multiple problems here, but we hasten to add that no rush to judgment needs to occur, either. The current context, however, does not look favorable for Bobby Cox.
For starters, Pamela Cox's response is almost the classic textbook case of a victim of domestic violence first reporting the issue to the police and then later blaming herself* for the escalation of the conflict to the point of violence. Making it worse, Bobby Cox's own words are also textbook: minimize what occurred, admit to a lesser infraction while denying striking the person, and blaming the victim. All of these would be horrible under any circumstances, but there is another light shining into the room that may produce results not to the liking of either Cox: the ongoing OJ Simpson trial is, at its core, not a murder case so much as it is a domestic violence case that ended with the murder of the victim at the hands of the abuser. (Side note: and let's not kid ourselves, regardless of the verdict of the jury later this year, everyone knows exactly what happened in that case - Simpson murdered his ex-wife and an eyewitness). The daily stream of revelations in the case going back 11 months now show a number of cultural issues, including mistrust of police, the privilege of celebrity, the limitations of forensics, race, misogyny, attorney malpractice, and finally but most importantly domestic violence. The larger public social context of the Simpson trial turns what is already a bad situation into something one hundred times worse thanks to the spotlight of scrutiny.
It is entirely possible this was a marital fluff that got out of hand and wound up with charges and counter-charges being made in an effort to win an argument. But there is also the very real possibility (verging towards probability) that Bobby Cox is - and there's no gentle way to put it - a wife beater. Time will tell if Bobby and Pamela Cox were a marital fight that escalated to police involvement or whether Cox has been abusing his wife for years. Abusers do not magically stop abusing just because the police came to the house. Time may serve as Cox's best ally so long as nothing like this ever happens again. It may also serve to wreck the career of one of the greatest managers baseball has ever seen if he is, in fact, an out of control perpetrator of domestic violence. The clock has begun ticking towards either healing or the next time Cox is arrested for the same thing. Let's hope for the sake of all involved - including his children - that Pamela Cox's second version of events is closer to the truth than her first. But let's also not dismiss the possibility that her preservational instinct may be the reason for the revision as well.
* - this is not to dismiss the fact that in rare cases men ARE the victims of domestic violence. However, the overwhelming majority of domestic violence cases are men abusing women.
Philadelphia Phillies 3 (W: Abbott, 1-0; SV - Slocumb, 5)
Atlanta Braves 2 (L: Glavine, 1-1)
6-5
2nd place
2 games behind
PHILS SWEEP BRAVES IN ATLANTA;
BRAVES MANAGER BOBBY COX ARRESTED FOR DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
The Philadelphia Phillies sent notice to the Atlanta Braves that they will not be pushovers in 1995, completing a four-game sweep in Atlanta thanks to a quick start that gave them a three-run lead off Atlanta starter and losing pitcher Tom Glavine. A leadoff walk to Len Dykstra and a Gregg Jefferies two-run home run gave Philly starter David West a 2-0 lead before the took the mound, and the Phils manufactured a third run with a Mickey Morandini single, a sacrifice bunt from West, and a single from Dykstra that scored Morandini. Atlanta manufactured runs in the third and sixth with small ball that included a Chipper Jones baserunning blunder (in the third), and the anemic Atlanta attack continues to have problem scoring runs. The Atlanta defense also made three errors. Heathcliff Slocumb got his fifth save of the year, and the Phillies leave town in first place on a high. And with apologies to Forrest Gump (just released two weeks ago on VHS after a successful run in theatres in the summer of 1994), "That's all we have to say about that." The major news concerned what happened before today's game (and after last night's game) that intersects with the justice system, the social problem of domestic violence, public relations, and the woes of the Braves thus far in 1995.
According to Cobb County police, Atlanta Braves Manager Bobby Cox was arrested last night around 10:15 pm at his home in Marietta and subsequently charged with simple battery for punching his wife and pulling her hair in a domestic dispute. The police report states that Cox's wife, Pamela, called the police and met them at the door with visible swelling and redness on the side of her face. Cox was also clearly intoxicated according to the report. Cox was released on $1,000 bond and faces a court hearing on May 26. Mrs. Cox said her husbandd and some guests were drinking at their home when he spilled a drink on the carpet, and she made a comment about it. Then, after the guests left, she alleges, he hit her in the face with his fist and pulled her hair. Pamela Cox further stated that "this has occurred many times before, but (she) never called the police because of possible media attention" as well as "the effect on their children." The police report said their youngest daughter, Skyla, 13, was home and witnessed the attack. Cox admitted that he pulled his wife's hair and called her a name (said to be one that rhymes with "rich" as Barbara Bush put it), but he denied hitting her. He further stated that she has also been violent in the past, and that he "hit her in reflex to her assault on him." Cox declined comment. Cox did, however, say that her flush face was not from him hitting her but from her vomiting as she was intoxicated as well.
Pamela Cox further added to the confusion today when she stated he had NOT, in fact, struck her, and that she had used a poor choice of words. She conceded they were arguing and that she had called 911 at the height of their dispute, but she revised her story to say he had, in fact, pulled her hair, but he had not struck her. She also said that she "looks a mess when I've been crying" and that while Bobby was, in fact, intoxicated, that had nothing to do with their dispute at all.
“Since spring training we’ve been under a lot of pressure because of family problems,” she told the newspaper. “This has been steaming for months. It has nothing to do with alcohol.I am as guilty as he is. I put my daughter’s pregnancy before spring training. I should have been there at spring training." There are multiple problems here, but we hasten to add that no rush to judgment needs to occur, either. The current context, however, does not look favorable for Bobby Cox.
For starters, Pamela Cox's response is almost the classic textbook case of a victim of domestic violence first reporting the issue to the police and then later blaming herself* for the escalation of the conflict to the point of violence. Making it worse, Bobby Cox's own words are also textbook: minimize what occurred, admit to a lesser infraction while denying striking the person, and blaming the victim. All of these would be horrible under any circumstances, but there is another light shining into the room that may produce results not to the liking of either Cox: the ongoing OJ Simpson trial is, at its core, not a murder case so much as it is a domestic violence case that ended with the murder of the victim at the hands of the abuser. (Side note: and let's not kid ourselves, regardless of the verdict of the jury later this year, everyone knows exactly what happened in that case - Simpson murdered his ex-wife and an eyewitness). The daily stream of revelations in the case going back 11 months now show a number of cultural issues, including mistrust of police, the privilege of celebrity, the limitations of forensics, race, misogyny, attorney malpractice, and finally but most importantly domestic violence. The larger public social context of the Simpson trial turns what is already a bad situation into something one hundred times worse thanks to the spotlight of scrutiny.
It is entirely possible this was a marital fluff that got out of hand and wound up with charges and counter-charges being made in an effort to win an argument. But there is also the very real possibility (verging towards probability) that Bobby Cox is - and there's no gentle way to put it - a wife beater. Time will tell if Bobby and Pamela Cox were a marital fight that escalated to police involvement or whether Cox has been abusing his wife for years. Abusers do not magically stop abusing just because the police came to the house. Time may serve as Cox's best ally so long as nothing like this ever happens again. It may also serve to wreck the career of one of the greatest managers baseball has ever seen if he is, in fact, an out of control perpetrator of domestic violence. The clock has begun ticking towards either healing or the next time Cox is arrested for the same thing. Let's hope for the sake of all involved - including his children - that Pamela Cox's second version of events is closer to the truth than her first. But let's also not dismiss the possibility that her preservational instinct may be the reason for the revision as well.
* - this is not to dismiss the fact that in rare cases men ARE the victims of domestic violence. However, the overwhelming majority of domestic violence cases are men abusing women.