I get the "just tough it out mentality" to an extent. But I can't factor that into a grown man molesting young men and boys. My guess is that the doctor had valuable information on Bo and Bo knew it. I doubt we will ever know.
I also caught on to the son saying that was the FIRST time he had been punched.
And FWIW....
Call me crazy.
Maybe I am not cut from the same cloth.
I just don't understand what a grown man sees in a child that is sexually attractive. I am a teacher (8th grade). I see lots of handsome young men and pretty young ladies...but none of them are attractive in that way.