Again, your complaint sounds legit. But no one is standing in line to do what is a thankless job. If you ref high school (or even junior high) games you will get cussed at, screamed at, and even followed to the parking lot and threatened. It happened to me.
Happened to me once too, although I wasn't threatened. I officiated football here in Northeast Alabama for a short time in the late 80's and had Brewer's Jr. High head coach follow me to my car complaining about a call I didn't even make in a game I was calling between Brewer and Arab at Arab.
I was the umpire and the back judge threw a flag on a Brewer player for interference in the end zone on a fourth down last play of the game play which gave Arab the ball on the 2 yard line and another down. They scored to win on the next play.
I kept telling the coach, "coach it wasn't my call", I didn't even see the interference as I had my back turned doing my assignment but he wasn't listening I don't reckon lol! Followed me all the way to my car and was still griping at the door as I drove off lol!!!
Have had the principle of the school hold the gate open for us, to run off the field to our car before the stadium could begin to exit lol!! It can be scary for sure!!!