He's handled the sideline (and what he wears, etc.) much differently than I would have if I were the coach. But I'm the overweight guy watching at home griping that the game lasts too late into the night, I'm not the one coaching.
In any other industry he'd be praised for self-control and restraint. But because "it's football," being toxic and codependent on the actions of kids half his age is *expected?*
My main point is that when it gets brought up, everyone has to include that it's only at certain times, not all the time. That automatically invokes a subjective standard. He's been entrusted with one of the most significant jobs in sports, yet he doesn't have the ability to decide when/what he gets upset about externally? The idea that he should care what someone else is doing or thinking while they watch the game in a living room or luxury box is just wild to me...especially aspects of his personality and character.
I would lose respect for any coach who does something, especially something as vital to a flourishing life as emotional regulation, simply because "most Alabama fans" want him to.