We may not deserve him as a coach if this is a common feeling. This is the kind of stuff that will make him leave.
Oats has done exactly to basketball what Saban did to football - upped the game. For years, the Duke's, North Carolina's, Kentucky's, Kansas', etc. of college basketball defined "success" not by just making the big dance, but doing well in it. During those years, "success" for us was simply "make the big dance". Oats has brought us to the point that our expectations are no longer "make the dance", but "compete for the crown". That's a credit to what he's done in his time here and he deserves all the praise for it. He's transformed this program into a national contender and done things critics said were impossible.
However, having said that, he's a victim of his own success in a way. When you set the bar that high in your own comments and the national pundits agree, seasonal expectations change. Ten years ago, I'd have been ecstatic with the way our regular season has played out... today, I'm not and that comes from the adjusted expectations of the program. I don't think anything we say here has any effect on Oats - as much as he dissects the games, there's nothing being said in this thread that he doesn't know and doesn't want to fix. That's part of his job and part of being an upper echelon coach in college sports. At times during Saban's tenure, many posters and even Jess identified problems in the FB program - doing so wasn't saying "we don't appreciate you" or "we want you to go". Rather, it's passion expressed about wanting the same thing the coach ultimately wants. Had he gone to Texas, Saban would have faced the same thing... and Oats would be facing the same thing if he had left for Kentucky last year. The only way a coach like Oats/Saban doesn't face this is by accepting a job at a school that has no history being "an upper tier team" in any of their collegiate teams.
The very fact that posters come on here and criticize things are a testament to what Oats has done. 10 years ago, a game thread wouldn't get four pages of posts. Now, it's not uncommon for them to get at least a dozen pages in length. In the end, what will matter most about this team is how they finish. If we make a run to the Elite Eight or Final Four, no one will remember how we couldn't beat the four best teams in our league this season. However, it there's an early exit, the regular season will be pointed at as an indicator of things to come. Lots of reasons for optimism... but room for pessimism too.