I will say this... I have been a DC and HC in high school football for many years now. Character issues have changed TREMENDOUSLY over the past 5-10 years. One kid who was a honoroll students was charged with rape and another who was one of the best kids I have ever known was charged with selling drugs. In the past I never had one single issue with young men doing anything more than a occasional fight with another student. Kids are very disrespectful and are sometimes "coddled" to the point they feel rules do not apply. If a player makes a mistake, either by attitude or breaking rules/laws, they are dismissed. NO CONSIDERATIONS. This is what I see happening in every CNS case thus far. The PLAYER and HIS FAMILY must own what has occured. I will support the young man in any situation and will give a second chance to show to his 1. Family, 2. TEAM, and 3. COACHES that they have corrected the character flaw that has hindered them. (Outside of any law breaking/conviction) Rival boards are going to have a field day, but please remember: In my heart of hearts I love every young man that has given me the pleasure of being a part of their lives, I love them, care for them and look after them to the best of my ability. I get personally involved because a young man makes many mistakes and needs alot of guidance in todays world. A coach is there 100% of their time because they want to, not because they have to. Where are the parents? Parents and the individual are the only ones to point the finger toward. I have three sons and do my very best to stay actively involved in their lives. As a parent or coach you try to provide tools each young man can use in LIFE. It hurts very badly to see a young man make a mistake of any magnitude that is publicised, talked about throughout the community, etc. A coach or family has no idea what a 16 year old much less a college player is doing in the 8-10 hours when out of school/practice. If you have done all you can, in your heart of hearts, to guide a young manand they make a mistake you don't give up on them, but THEY MUST OWN IT.