If they haven't come here, my feeling he isn't coming. We do not know for sure whether they have come to look around or not. I would not think his wife would agree to move to a new city site unseen. How would you like to move your wife to say Auburn without her seeing it. That is how divorces happen.
How many multi-million dollar homes do you have to look at before they all look the same? He will be in the highest yuppity subdivision in Tuscaloosa, with access to whatever they want, whenever they want it. Do you really have to come see that? He's moving from Kansas, so the terrain would probably be the biggest adjustments for his family. "What are these drastic changes in elevation and why does my car slow down so much?"