I absolutely get that and largely agree. I think my point is that it may be a more effective way to argue if we conceded a point here or there. I've just seen too many arguments where both sides just end up hating each other even more and both sides feel vindicated and right. And almost all of those situations are when people fall into the trap of taking extreme positions to counterbalance others extreme positions. And then you end up defending points that you don't mean to be. Part of this is the conservative media strategy in the first place and I think we play into it at times.
Heck, I've done this plenty of times, often on TideFans.
While I don't disagree that the result is as you laid out, I equate this whole thing to arguing with a 4 year old.
4 Year Old: Unicorns are real!
Me: No. Unicorns are not real. They are a fictional animal popular in fantasy stories.
4 Year Old: But the man in the book my teacher read rode one! Buy me a unicorn daddy!
Me: Again, I cannot buy you something that does not exist. Even if Unicorns did exist I couldn't buy you one because they are far too expensive (This statement is the equivalent of conceding the point with caveats.)
4 Year Old: Daddy you need a better job to be able to buy me a unicorn.
Me: That isn't anything close to what I said. My. job is fine, I get satisfaction from it, and I get to come home and see you every night.
4 Year Old: Yeah but you aren't a Unicorn.
Me: ...
4 Year Old: Timmy down the street said his parents bought him two unicorns. Sure would be nice if you loved me enough to buy me a unicorn.
Me: ...
4 Year Old: I am just asking questions here. I mean if you loved me enough to buy me a unicorn, at least the gas is cheap for when you go pick it up from the unicorn store.