Britney's night of hostage-holding, drugs, etc.

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Well, it's all over the news about her latest shenanigans. Someone needs to order her to stay in that psych ward for a while, then a stent in jail. This girl is literally deteriorating before our eyes and nobody has done a thing until last night and that's only because she literally had a four hour standoff with cops over the kids.

Here's hoping she gets the help she needs, loses custody of her kids for good, and disappears back to Louisiana where she belongs...along with her sister the teenaged mom!
 
She's repeatedly (5 times) failed to show for court-ordered depositions, refused to hand her kids over last night despite a court order, and according to police appeared to be under the influence of some substance. Oh, and she's also under court order not to use drugs. I would think that many flagrant violations of court mandates would put her in contempt. Last I checked that can land you in the pokey.

Did you really miss all that?:wink:
 
She's repeatedly (5 times) failed to show for court-ordered depositions, refused to hand her kids over last night despite a court order, and according to police appeared to be under the influence of some substance. Oh, and she's also under court order not to use drugs. I would think that many flagrant violations of court mandates would put her in contempt.
I seriously doubt that this would put anyone in jail. It happens every day.

As for the custody thing, I don't care what the courts order. I am happy that she is fighting to keep the kids. It is a good sign.

I won't apologize for people like this woman, but her husband is just as bad (as a parent). He is the one currently partying with the Hilton girls. He drinks and uses drugs. He leaves the kids with strangers while he goes out on binges. They are both trash. Somehow he has convinced a judge that she is worse, but she isn't some sort of psycho.

My point - we don't know what is going on, and her celebrity status doesn't change that. I just wish these stories would go away. I am tired of hearing about this stuff every day. But I hope, for her children's sake, that she stays in their lives. Every child needs a mother...
 
if the media would quit reporting this crap like it actually matters, half of these people wouldn't act the way they do. Brit and her idiot ex-husband should both be sterilized.
 
NYBF, I'm shocked you feel that way. I won't argue that Federline's any better a parent, but when it's counted he's done what the court has ordered him to do and not acted as though he's above the law. She, on the other hand has acted with contempt and is clearly, IMO, the greater of the two evils. I believe in personal accountability. That is why I wish they'd put her in the clink for a few days. I guarantee you if I acted as she has the court would certainly hold me accountable. Why should she be held to a different standard?

Oh, and no child needs to be exposed to a crazy, self-destructive parent. All that does is leave the child unstable. The cycle has to stop somewhere. Oh, and the news was also saying the younger of the two boys had to be taken to the ED last night too. So I wonder what happened while in the custody of his mother while she was in a standoff with police?
 
NYBF, I'm shocked you feel that way.

I don't think that we are as far apart as you seem to think, but I don't pretend to know what is happening here. You seem to have decided to accept what the media is feeding us. I am not as willing. Things are always more complex.

If the media would butt out, this family has a chance. This stuff is none of our business. We sound like little old wash ladies discussing the latest antics of the town whore.

For me, it comes down to this - these children need their mother...
 
She obviously needs professional care. It's gonna look bad when she'd dead 6 months from now and no one did anything to make her get help.
 
I seriously doubt that this would put anyone in jail. It happens every day.

As for the custody thing, I don't care what the courts order. I am happy that she is fighting to keep the kids. It is a good sign.
You're making a bit of a leap here. It may be a good sign for her, depending on her motivations. But even if she wants to keep the kids for the right reasons, that doesn't automatically mean that the children would be better off staying with her.

As you yourself note, we don't really know what's going on...
 
LOL - agreed, but a drunken mother who loves you is better than no mother. Just ask a child...
I ask at least one a day, in my office. Children of alcoholics/drug addicts or any other chaotic-functioning parent grow up having problems. They usually end up being quite different from their parents, but often so neurotic and damaged that they struggle everyday in their internal emotional lives. Not all of them, but many, many of them. They are the bread and butter of my psychiatric practice.

We don't know if Britney loves these kids or is even capable of loving them the way a mother should. All we assume is based on what behavior she shows the public. And based on what I've seen, I'd say she's got a personality disorder, a substance dependence problem and a mood disorder (which may or may not be due to the substances). That doesn't mean she's incapable of loving her kids, but it does mean that the most important person in her life is most likely to be herself first and everyone else a distant second. You can take that to the bank. I see it everyday. And it's the children that pay the price for her chaos.

"A drunken mother is better than no mother." Probably. However, a stable mother, father, grandparent, aunt, uncle or foster/adoptive parent is light years better than a drunken parent any day of the week.

Someone needs to stop being intimidated by her star power and start acting in the childrens' best interest immediately. That involves at least temporary loss of visitation for ol' Brit Brit.
 
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