I have found that my hatred for either of them isn't as strong when Alabama has a strong program. I've respected Tennessee in the past, but I've never respected Auburn. Tennessee has looked like an elite program before, but Auburn has always looked like a floundering little step brother of a program that's always trying its best to be like big brother, all the while talking about how much they hate us.
There are lunatics from both. We have our lunatics too, I guess. What I would love to see is both programs running a tight ship, that focuses itself internally, doing its best to be its best. I believe that would produce some truly epic games and series, with respect on both sides. Of course I don't mind it when they both suck, but the jealousy and hatred gets old fast.