Just because some people view it as racist doesn't mean it is.
I'd not wear one (for multiple reasons), but I don't assume someone wearing a hat is racist, just as I don't assume someone with a confederate flag hat is racist.
You are, of course, free to assume whatever you wish, but that doesn't mean it's fact.
AFAIK no kne has asked you to feel sorry for anyone. All I'm asking for is justice, and that's what we see happening here.
Not really. Ultimately, what someone chooses to wear does not mean the boundaries of the law change - you cannot assault someone simply because you don't like what they're wearing (or find it suggestive).
It's interesting how many people I've seen express views about this man without evening knowing him, some even supporting the woman (also without knowing her). I'm not placing you in that category, but I do find it telling how many people allow their hatred to color what justice actually looks like.