Link: WSJ Article with Mrs. Terry: Bama fans are unappreciative, but we're not leaving

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I am holding off on making a rush to judgment on this one, but I am inclined to believe this was taken out of context. We have had off the field distractions with this kind of mess, and I don't think the timing of the article release is coincidental at all. We are approaching debatably the biggest IB in history and as others have mentioned this will be a discussion topic before, probably during, and certainly after the game regardless of the outcome.

Based on earlier comments, I would think this was probably related to fans leaving early, lack of a full house, etc. We certainly have our share of fair weather fans and bandwagon jumpers that hang on every season, game, or even series of plays, but that comes with success and all teams have them! Hopefully this will be cleared up soon, and it isn't as bad as it seems/sounds. RTR!
I agree.
 

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I spent a little time looking at the writer's tweets....https://twitter.com/sharonterlep ...I'm not real good at understanding them, but...

It looks like she was hired in October as
New inning begins--thrilled to join @WSJSports as investigative/enterprise reporter.Best wishes to M&A whizzes @DanaMattioli @danacimilluca!
In her tweets, she mentions investigative pieces:
How the Miami Dolphins fell apart. @kevinclarkwsj dissects dynamics that created fertile ground for Incognito flap
Something else she brought up in tweets:
A runner strikes back: @hellikerk on how antipathy toward runners can turn ugly. @wsjsports
She was hired to be a muckraker is my best guess.
 

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Sounds like Mrs. Saban, bless her heart, should get out of North River and spend some time with normal folks.
This is my take too CrimsonProf. Perception is reality and we can only perceive what is around us. She is around a lot of students, administration and a who's who of celebrated personalities. I'm 47 and did not even attend the University. Yet when I found myself overseas many years ago my dad would call me long distance, put the receiver next to the radio and I would listen to Eli Gold for 4 hours in victory or defeat. I found this site over 10 years ago and continue to visit it everyday. And I know for a fact that there are at least 100,000 others who are exactly like me within a 5 mile radius of where I am now sitting.

I hope when she says "we are trying to educate ourselves and change ourselves" she means that they are going to look beyond the celebrity bubble they are living in and discover a very passionate, educated and diverse group of rabid fans brought together by love of a university that not all of us attended yet support as much now as anytime in history.
 

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Keep in mind the writer added the comment about the empty seats not Terry Saban.
But it could be she did that to bring some context to Mrs. Saban's comments. Let's be honest, her comments were very broad and vague. So going by the flow of the paragraph right after Mrs. Saban made her vague comments the writer attempts to bring some context to them by giving examples of what Mrs. Saban is talking about.
 

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I read the article again and it seems she's making reference to the students more than anything.



It seems the "lack of appreciation" she is talking about is directed at the students. Look, the Sabans aren't idiots. There's no way she is talking about the fans who's got kids, works and is trying to support a family. I truly believe she is echoing the thoughts of CNS a few weeks ago when he called out the students.
After mulling it over overnight, the attendance is the only possible target, and, even there, it's mostly the students. She's probably also talking about other, older fans leaving with a substantial part of the 4th quarter remaining. Someone above mentioned 10-20K on the waiting list. I think it's more like 30K. The attendance problem could be solved by a couple of simple moves by the AD. With the amount of adulation they receive, off-field and on, there is no other possible meaning. It's been touched on several times above, but it's important to remember that this "journalist" was a student at MSU when he left. I think the hurt comes through in the slant she gave the article. It happens that, at that time, I was playing golf weekly with an MSU grad, actually my nephew's FIL. He was crushed. He felt that the only chance they would ever have to reach parity with UM was gone. It was very much a "poor us" attitude. This girl was probably not the best choice for the author of this article...
 

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It is my strong belief that this "crossroads" that Mrs. Terry speaks of, that she believes, "they are there about now", will be the source of what causes CNS to retire if we 3 peat. There is a special completeness in sports of a 3peat and what has always driven CNS mad is the idea that seems to be in his psyche the belief of our fans that all we have to do is just show up and we'll kick everyone's butt. That there is a sense of entitlement at Bama. ie. all the bellyaching after games like Va Tech.....Miss St. (the sky is falling). I think this is the "special pressure". Personally, I believe CNS retires if we win the NC. Kirby will be the new head coach.
 

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To sum it up,
Yes we probably have become somewhat spoiled by success, but
NO, there is no lack of appreciation

All real fans totally realize that without CNS, we would be nowhere near where we are today. Bama and CNS are a perfect match.:cool:
 

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This is an article build around one line, which is really not that negative, that she said in probably a two hour interview. Look at what a tizzy it got everyone into.

She could not have been more clear that she was staying. I'm not sure what more you want her and the Sabans' to say.
 

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Look, I watched Chattanooga fans make fun of Alabama fans as they hurried out of the stadium in the third quarter. You're darn right some Alabama fan's are unappreciative. It was Senior Day, and even the Chattanooga fans got that you don't walk out on the team, heck, they stayed. Was getting to the car a few minutes earlier really more important than one last Rammer Jammer with the seniors? Was it really more important than watching AJ take a final lap around the stadium? I can't comprehend that, and I think unappreciative, given what those seniors did is entirely appropriate.
A sure-fire easy way to show appreciation is to stay until the end, no matter what. I know we've based this out before, but you and I agree 100% here - I stay until the end no matter what.
 

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After mulling it over overnight, the attendance is the only possible target, and, even there, it's mostly the students. She's probably also talking about other, older fans leaving with a substantial part of the 4th quarter remaining. Someone above mentioned 10-20K on the waiting list. I think it's more like 30K. The attendance problem could be solved by a couple of simple moves by the AD. With the amount of adulation they receive, off-field and on, there is no other possible meaning. It's been touched on several times above, but it's important to remember that this "journalist" was a student at MSU when he left. I think the hurt comes through in the slant she gave the article. It happens that, at that time, I was playing golf weekly with an MSU grad, actually my nephew's FIL. He was crushed. He felt that the only chance they would ever have to reach parity with UM was gone. It was very much a "poor us" attitude. This girl was probably not the best choice for the author of this article...
This need to be reiterated...again. It stands out in the article that she is really taking a swipe at the Sabans on how they left MSU. Still a lot of butt-hurt on her part.
 

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Unfortunately, I don't think she's wrong at all. We don't appreciate it, and we won't until it's gone. I really try to appreciate it, but I know I don't. I did those first few years, but not now.
I think, speaking for myself - but probably a lot of others - the main emotion I have is dread that he will leave or retire and it will all end. I'd hope that Kirby or another coach would maintain it, but I don't really believe it.

I think that we senior fans, particularly those like I, who started school under the train wreck which was Whitworth, are a special category. We are not under-appreciators. We know all too well just how ephemeral it can be. During the Shula years, I had conversation with the late Billy Neighbors and remarked that we'd never live long enough to see Bama football come back. I was so glad he lived long enough to see it happen...
 

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There's a lot of ways I can look at this. So I'll just look at it my usual way.

1) Quite frankly, I don't trust the media at all. The media's bread and butter is getting a reaction and then smiling as reactions go haywire. That's why they spin stories a certain way - and you can look at NS board here and see some long ones that the media stirred up. So that's the first problem.

2) Try and put yourself in Terry Saban's shoes for a minute. I think you might look at it differently.

She signed on 40 years ago with a guy who was gonna be a football coach - back when coaches didn't make a whole lot of money. I seriously doubt she ever dreamed she'd be married to a multi-millionaire or a living legend. And you must understand that that becomes it's own prison for the entire family, not just the coach. The woman - I'm sure - cannot go out doing basic things like shopping or even to a movie without hundreds of people recognizing her (certainly dozens on a slow night in T-Town). Wouldn't you get tired of the stares? Wouldn't you feel somewhat oppressed by stares the week after a loss - like you're getting blamed for it?

Maybe she said it because of our fan base's tendency to have vocal nitwits without brains (Updyke is a great example) who start screaming about firing coaches the moment we lose. TF is a well-moderated site but think about a few things here:

a) many fans gave up on us in the LSU game in 2012, right here on TF, you can go read some of the moronic spew
b) the day we lost to aTm some nitwit started a "Fire Doug Nussmeier" thread, like a complete idiot (it was squelched)

How in the world would you feel if you did a monumentally outstanding job but had just one day when it all didn't go well (2011 LSU and 2012 aTm) and that one day was all anyone talked about for the year?

Anyone want to bet the woman hears MORE about what we did wrong in 2012 against aTm than what we did right, which was every other game? If you heard every day of the year about the one loss EVEN THOUGH WE STILL WON IT ALL - I think you'd feel unappreciated, too.

Remember her comment last year about how it's "a relief" when you win, not enjoyed? Do you all realize that if we lose ANY of the next three games this year - it is all that woman is going to hear about online, on TV, in her everyday life - even though we won 3 in 4 years?

How would YOU feel if you were in those shoes?

3) Maybe she just mis-spoke

There was little in there about what she actually said. Most of it was a build-up as to why Saban "might" leave that was undercut by the initial "we're not leaving."

For the time being - and pending further developments - I'm simply going to let it go, and I'd advise my brothers in Tide to do the same thing. Anyone wanna bet that if we lose the IB THIS is what everyone wants to blame?

RTR
AMEN, AMEN, AMEN!!! Perfectly said!! Don't forget how critical the fans were at the beginning of the year when we only beach Virginia Tech by 25 points :rolleyes: and how bad our offensive line sucked. :rolleye2:

If you people can't see how absolutely CORRECT Ms. Terry is on how spoiled we are as Bama fans, then I just don't know what to say. *SMH* Wait, I do know what to say, but it would get me permanently banned from TideFans and I do NOT want that! :)

I don't think she LITERALLY meant that we are unappreciative as a fan base and I'm not offended about what she said. I'm a realist and I think she was spot on!! Those of us who have taken this personally need to step back and reevaluate why you are on this earth. Do you take as much offense when you are criticized about your parenting skills or your job skills? Probably not and that is sad.
 

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Man, so much pessimism and angst in this thread. This feels like one of those "OMG CNS to Texas??" topics or "There's a job opening at X school it was nice having Kirby while he lasted but now I am sad" threads.

Both Terry and Nick Saban have always been very positive in their comments about Alabama and Alabama fans. Do you think it's likely that they've suddenly changed their minds? Or do you think it's more likely that Terry Saban made a few comments that were quoted out of context?

Out-of-context quotes happen ALL THE TIME. Terry Saban may have spent 10 minutes on the phone with this journalist giving all the pat answers about "yes, we're happy here, we're staying here" but, when pressed about fan attendance or something, acknowledged something about "unappreciative" in one sentence and that's what the journalist seized on.
 

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I've intentionally refrained from commenting on this for about 12 hours or so, but even after that time I can't reach any other reasonable conclusion other than to say that, even when cast it in the absolute best light, these comments were very poorly stated and were provided with terrible timing.

And to an extent, I actually agree with Terry Saban as to the factual basis of her comments, because there is a lot of unrealistic expectations and entitlement out there now, and that's going to be the case until this whole dynasty run comes crashing to a halt (though I do think she's way off base with the whole "unappreciated" bit). Then again, what could you reasonably expect? There is no way that you are ever going to win as much as we have in such a short period of time and not have that be the case, and the same would hold true regardless of where it occurred. That's not exactly a phenomena unique to Tuscaloosa.

Two more points that I will add and then I'll shut up:

(1) Thought this was a really strange article for the Sabans to even participate in -- and rest assured Nick participated, working together with Terry to deliver a message, even if he didn't say anything on his own -- because this honestly cast them in a very bad light. This wasn't just some fluff piece for the Sabans, it was pretty brutal of their history... using everything to effectively hold schools hostage to extract all of the resources possible for the program, leaving MSU because he felt he wasn't timely paid a bonus, leaving Miami because he didn't have enough control, initially lying to MSU admins about his negotiations with LSU, learning the card game just to fit in with the families of black recruits, etc. Again, this isn't a fluff piece, and if it weren't for Terry's participation most would probably even be calling it a hit piece. Hard for me to even understand why you would participate in something like that. And frankly, it makes it very easy to cast doubt on the whole "We're not going anywhere" bit when it's stated in context of all of the other prior denials that obviously didn't hold up when push came to shove.

(2) That line about how Terry was actually in Tuscaloosa, before Nick took the 'Bama job, scoping out facilities, housing, schools, and other areas? That certainly gives some feasible credence to all of those Saban-to-Texas and Terry-Househunting-in-Austin rumors, invented and pedantic as though I'm sure they are in actuality. Again, at best very poorly worded and very bad timing.

On the upside, I honestly don't see where Saban would go, under this guise, even if he were to leave. Clearly the NFL isn't an option anymore -- Terry still wouldn't have a role, and Nick would have even less control than he had in Miami -- and while they might not like the appreciation and the expectation in Tuscaloosa, that's not going to be any different in Austin, LA, or otherwise, and it's fool's gold to think as much. Perhaps the real takeaway here is not, "Better please me or I'll leave," but "Better please me or I'll hang it up and head to Lake Burton"?

We'll see, but it will be what it will be. Earle was certainly right, though, a few pages back: For better or for worse this is going to be a very big story, perhaps even bigger than the outcome of the Iron Bowl, and if we slip up on Saturday afternoon in Jordan-Hare, this thing could easily turn into a giant mushroom cloud. Nothing may come of it in fact, but certainly the degree of speculation that will result will multiply exponentially if we don't care of business on the Plains, and we have nothing to do but wait around five weeks on some relatively meaningless bowl. At best it will turn into a huge and unnecessary distraction.
 
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Been a fast moving thread. Haven't had time to read all of it.
I see a lot of positive here;

She noted that this is the longest they've stayed anywhere—by two years—and that they feel like members of the community. Their children, Kristen and Nicholas, both graduated from Alabama. "We feel more like it's home, like we are a part of the community and pulling up stakes again would be difficult."
"We are trying to educate ourselves, to change ourselves," Terry said. "We can't change expectations or change lack of appreciation. We have to change our mind-set. We have decided: this is where we are going to end our career."


Last sentence is a very welcome statement to me. Glad you are staying Ms Terry. We love you and appreciate you and your husband for what you have brought to our University.
 
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