There is another example of how dumb out debates are: women in combat.
There is an ambiguity in the term "combat" that swallows the debate.
When Hegseth's name first got floated for the SECDEF position, one woman said, "Hegseth says female veteran can't serve in combat. I maintained aircraft in a combat zone, so he's wrong."
I'm sure she did maintain aircraft in a combat zone and I honor her service, but turning wrenches somewhere in CENTCOM is not exactly the same as kicking in doors and shooting people in the face, or humping a 50 pound ruck up the mountains in the Hindu Kush. Those two jobs have different requirements.
Determine what the "no kidding" physical requirements are and open the field to those who can meet them, regardless of sex. For example, 155mm artillery rounds weigh 100 pounds each. They have to be loaded into the vehicle manually and a basic load is 36 rounds. If a soldier cannot lift 100 pounds over his/her head 36 times within a few minutes, then that person does not need to be in the artillery. Not that they are a bad soldier, just not cut out for the artillery.
The last event in the Expert Infantryman's Badge (EIB) is a 12 mile ruck with a 50-pound ruck, load-bearing equipment and weapons. Probably 65 pounds total. The time limit of 3 hours. A candidate that cannot do that probably does not belong in the infantry.
To be an aircraft mechanic is probably less demanding physically, so that standard would be lower. Or a clerk-typist in the Navy. Nothing wrong with those who do those jobs.
Instead, over and over, the Army set a quota (stated or strongly implied) for whatever under-represented group and then behind the scenes, ordered those responsible to make sure a certain number "achieved" the standard. Every time I see the Army Public Affairs Office celebrating some "glass ceiling" being broken, it makes me wonder whether the person met the standard or the just found flexible graders who were willing to pass them.
But "combat zone" is an ambiguous term. Both the wrench-turner in UAE and the infantrymen in Ramadi in "in combat zone," but they work in different environments.