DMaguire--
I couldn't agree with you more about the workshopping issue--it can be very helpful or it can be nothing at all. I got tired of them after a while.
Well, I graduated from Bama in '80 with a Mass Comm. degree, then after I married (a boy who played for the Bear, no less), we moved to Richmond, VA.
But while at Bama I studied with Barry Hannah--he was there in the late 70's, and boy, was it wonderful! He inspired me so much.
It was a wild time at Bama in the 70's (before you were born!), let me tell you.
I never really wrote after college other than gigs in retail advertising, and so I decided I really wanted to go back to school in 1996 at Virginia Commonwealth University here in Richmond. I took a lot of literature and creative writing classes on the undergrad level before I got the courage to apply for the MFA program, and when I got in, I was beside myself. It meant so much to me, being older and knowing that I truly wanted it--I made MUCH better grades this time!
VCU is a great school--a huge state univesity that is urban and funky and wide open intellectually--very liberal (they also have one of the top medical schools in the nation). I met a lot of writers when they came to town for readings (Lee Smith for one!) and I studied with Sherry Reynolds, who was on Oprah's book club a few years back for her novel "The Rapture of Canaan."
I loved every moment of grad school, and I consider it such a privilege that I was able to do it. I have a lot of rejection slips for my short stories, but I did get a letter to the editor published in the "Oxford American" a few years back. The funniest thing for me was being in school with "Mid-Atlantic" (translation: Yankees) folks and then pure Yankees. As the only writer from the Deep South, I was something for them to scratch their heads about. I consider myself blessed to have grown up in Alabama and to have known so many characters (most of them in my family!).
Now my son is a freshman in Tuscaloosa, and it's sort of like I'm experiencing it all over again. That's why I got on this board, and that's why I love connecting with people like you, because I am .......HOMESICK