Growing up during the 1990s, I can remember being ecstatic when I got to see Alabama and Gene Stallings on TV every Saturday during the season. Never having a father figure in my life, and my mother is more Auburn than Alabama, even though she really doesn't care much about football, I always looked up to Coach Stallings as if HE alone was the family I never had. Alabama football, then, was so special to me, and I don't know why considering I wasn't really raised on it. It was like instinct almost. It was like a breath of fresh air every time I got to see them play. I've never met Coach Stallings, Ruth Ann, or John, nor have I seen them in person, but to this day, that entire family is MY Bryant family. I have the utmost respect for Coach Bryant, but Gene Stallings has always meant more to me than any other coach in the history of Alabama. I love Alabama football today, but nothing will ever be as special as growing up during the Stallings era. While others reminisce on the glory days of Bear Bryant, I always like to think back to Iron Bowl of 96, or the OSU game in 94, and of course the Miami game of 92.
This news is even more heartbreaking than that unforgettable night at at my grandpa's church when one of the ushers (who always discussed Alabama football with me), told me Gene Stallings was retiring...
When I was growing up, only one lady would always look after me, and she had a son around the age of John, who also had down syndrome. He was one of my best friends, and to this day, he always will be. I never knew what down syndrome was, but my mother always referred to him as just being "special". When I had my first glimpse at John Mark, I knew he was "special" just like Vince. Just because of that, I noticed how joyful and happy John and Vince always seemed to be, unlike the most of us. Watching John celebrate ecstatically in the stands after Alabama would score a touchdown, always impacted my heart in a way that had never been done so before. I always kept tabs on Coach Stallings and Mr. John, and I never knew he was having heart trouble.
It's sad to see him go, especially considering how much this family means to me. It's almost as if I lost a member of my family, even though I have never met the two, or personally seen them other than what I've seen of them on TV or on the Internet. I even remember the funniest thing which happened about a year ago, Coach Stallings asked John who his favorite Alabama coach was, and instead of saying "you father" he said "Nick Saban". lol
I wish there's something I can do for the Stallings family, but all I can do is pray and also hope that one day I can finally meet John in heaven.
RIP John and Roll Tide forever!