And one more thing, before I bow out.............
DV has occurred, on both sides of my family, since before I was born. And before my parents were born. And most likely before their parents were born. All of this stuff stayed behind closed doors, and we thought that was the wrong approach, as so much of it continued as long as it remained hidden.
Now, we have the opposite problem: a lot of men are still scum, but it has created an artificial class of victims. Not to belittle the true victims, but using that as weapon, to nuke a man's life, just because you are scorned, isn't any better.
A friend's son had his life darn near ruined, when the bitter ex-wife accused the ex-hubby of molesting their infant son. He was immediately booted out of the Navy, and ended up living on the streets, in some distant town, far away from his family. (Since that is where he was stationed, and left essentially penniless.) Eventually, he got hooked on drugs, etc.
Took this poor guy around 20 years to get his life turned back around, and become a productive citizen again. All because of a bitter woman, who wanted her pound of flesh.
Back to the case at hand.............who are the real victims as opposed to the fake ones, and which ones are really the rats? All of them seem to be the rats.
Or are they? I guess they are just victims of society.....................society is to blame.
(Or maybe they are all just a bunch of white suburban punks.)